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Beloved
Beloved
Give up the feeling of being
"not enough" for Lent!
Give up the feeling of being
"not enough" for Lent!
"not enough" for Lent!
Beloved
Beloved
A Lenten study to help Catholic homeschool moms learn
how to be enough, instead of focusing on trying to do more,
by first rooting yourself in your identity as a Beloved daughter of God!
how to be enough, instead of focusing on trying to do more,
by first rooting yourself in your identity as a Beloved daughter of God!
Does this sound familiar?
Does this sound familiar?
I’m not patient enough…
I’m not organized enough…
I’m not fun enough…
I’m not smart enough…
I’m not holy enough…
I’m not patient enough…
I’m not organized enough…
I’m not fun enough…
I’m not smart enough…
I’m not holy enough…
I’m not organized enough…
I’m not fun enough…
I’m not smart enough…
I’m not holy enough…
I call this the Litany of Not Enough
I call this the Litany of Not Enough
...and it is infecting Catholic families all over the world by keeping mothers:
- Focused on trying to prove their enoughness through productivity
- Distracted from the most important part of their God-given mission: their relationships.
Beloved is a Lenten study to heal your own personal Litany of Not Enough, first and foremost by focusing on your identity as a Beloved daughter of God, from which all other relationships and work flows.
When your identity as a Beloved daughter of God is rock-solid and your relationship with Him feels filled up and life-giving, then you pour into all the other relationships and tasks of your life more smoothly, less hurriedly, and more naturally, without the pressure of doing enough...
...because you are already being enough.
When your identity as a Beloved daughter of God is rock-solid and your relationship with Him feels filled up and life-giving, then you pour into all the other relationships and tasks of your life more smoothly, less hurriedly, and more naturally, without the pressure of doing enough...
...because you are already being enough.
Identity. Relationship. Mission.
I call this living in Right Order.
And putting your life in Right Order is exactly what you’ll learn how to do in Beloved.
Identity. Relationship. Mission.
I call this living in Right Order.
And putting your life in Right Order is exactly what you’ll learn how to do in Beloved.
I call this living in Right Order.
And putting your life in Right Order is exactly what you’ll learn how to do in Beloved.
“For those who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God.
For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you received a spirit of adoption, through which we cry, “Abba, Father!
The Spirit itself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God,
and if children, then heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if only we suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him,”
- Romans 8: 14-17
For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you received a spirit of adoption, through which we cry, “Abba, Father!
The Spirit itself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God,
and if children, then heirs, heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if only we suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him,”
- Romans 8: 14-17
Beloved is a Lenten journey primarily focused on:
- Identifying and uprooting the lies that have unintentionally shaped your reactions, habits, and sense of self-worth
- Healing your heart that has been wounded by those lies and vices, so that virtue can take hold
- Putting your life in Right Order so you can feel grounded in the presence of your heavenly Father no matter how your days unfold.
Each week you'll receive teaching and live coaching grounded in Catholic theology and modern brain science with practical, applicable Catholic tools to make real change in your heart and home.
To support your work with the Lord, you’ll be guided through curated worksheets that help you apply each week’s teaching to your unique circumstances.
Family Discussion questions will support your entire family’s growth in virtue this Lent!
And you’ll get access to an online community of women who are walking the same Lenten path alongside you.
This community space also provides a safe place to ask questions, and request prayer and support between the live workshops.
Beloved begins the week of Ash Wednesday with a pre-recorded orientation video that walks you through the materials we will be using, including a Prayer Language Assessment, Temperaments Assessment, and additional tools to help you personalize your jour Lenten journey from the very beginning!
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Mama, you are busy!
You don't have time or energy to waste.
Which is why we are making
every minute of Beloved count.
Mama, you are busy!
You don't have time or energy to waste.
Which is why we are making
every minute of Beloved count.
You don't have time or energy to waste.
Which is why we are making
every minute of Beloved count.
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Beloved breakdown:
Beloved breakdown:
PREP WEEK: Understand who God made you to be.
Prep Week will help you stop fighting yourself and begin working with how God actually designed you!
You will identify and learn more about your unique God-given Temperament and Prayer Language to help you talk to and hear God's voice more clearly, without second guessing!
A pre-recorded video this week will give you an introduction to the virtues and their accompanying vices, so you can identify the areas that God wants to work on in you this Lent so you make progress in the most important areas without wasting time.Prep Week will help you stop fighting yourself and begin working with how God actually designed you!
You will identify and learn more about your unique God-given Temperament and Prayer Language to help you talk to and hear God's voice more clearly, without second guessing!
WEEK 1: Identity: Being a beloved daughter of God.
Learn to let go of the lies that separate you from God, and build trust that God has everything under control, because He loves you so much!
WEEK 2: Identity: Who do you say that I am?
Learn to set aside other people's opinions and judgements of you, so you can feel free and confident in the choices you make for yourself and your family, regardless of what other people think.
WEEK 3: Identity: Who am I aside from my productivity?
Learn how to become more relationship focused and less task oriented, and feel more connected to all the important people in your life.
WEEK 4: Relationship: Filling up my marriage in Right Order.
Learn to focus on what's within your control and show unconditional love to your husband, so your marriage feels deep, connected, and free.
WEEK 5: Relationship + Mission: Fulfilling your 'call within a call.'
Learn to pour into your parenting and homeschool relationships intentionally, so you feel closer to your kids (and end the screaming matches and power struggles!).
WEEK 6: Identity + Mission: Understand and unite daily suffering to Jesus.
Learn to embrace the little and big opportunities of daily suffering with your wholehearted fiat, so you no longer fear suffering, but instead embrace your crosses and make them a holy offering to God.
WEEK 7 (Easter Week!): Mission: God promises you hope and a future.
Discern what God is calling you to do next, so you can move forward with renewed purpose and calm confidence, instead of self-doubt and second-guessing.
Learn to let go of the lies that separate you from God, and build trust that God has everything under control, because He loves you so much!
WEEK 2: Identity: Who do you say that I am?
Learn to set aside other people's opinions and judgements of you, so you can feel free and confident in the choices you make for yourself and your family, regardless of what other people think.
WEEK 3: Identity: Who am I aside from my productivity?
Learn how to become more relationship focused and less task oriented, and feel more connected to all the important people in your life.
WEEK 4: Relationship: Filling up my marriage in Right Order.
Learn to focus on what's within your control and show unconditional love to your husband, so your marriage feels deep, connected, and free.
WEEK 5: Relationship + Mission: Fulfilling your 'call within a call.'
Learn to pour into your parenting and homeschool relationships intentionally, so you feel closer to your kids (and end the screaming matches and power struggles!).
WEEK 6: Identity + Mission: Understand and unite daily suffering to Jesus.
Learn to embrace the little and big opportunities of daily suffering with your wholehearted fiat, so you no longer fear suffering, but instead embrace your crosses and make them a holy offering to God.
WEEK 7 (Easter Week!): Mission: God promises you hope and a future.
Discern what God is calling you to do next, so you can move forward with renewed purpose and calm confidence, instead of self-doubt and second-guessing.
Programs alone won't change your life long term.
Having a Catholic life coach and community
in your back pocket while you learn is the key to making what you learn more sustainable for the long haul.
Having a Catholic life coach and community
in your back pocket while you learn is the key to making what you learn more sustainable for the long haul.
in your back pocket while you learn is the key to making what you learn more sustainable for the long haul.
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Beloved includes:
Beloved includes:
💜Seven weekly live lessons with coaching, approximately 60-90 minutes each (replays included!).
💜Accompanying worksheets, scripture, music recommendations with links, and practical tools to apply the work to your life immediately.
💜Family discussion questions for each week's topic broken down by age group to share what you are learning with the rest of your family (Moms say connecting with their kids with this work is one of their new favorite parts of their week!).
💜Expert teaching on proven Catholic mind management and emotional regulation tools and skills (including creating healthy boundaries to protect your prayer time).
💜Consistent coaching support and accountability for your parenting, homeschooling, and even your marriage!
💜Uplifting and supportive Catholic homeschool mom community (off of FB) where you can get grown up interaction, ask questions, and get help in real time between the live calls!
💜Accompanying worksheets, scripture, music recommendations with links, and practical tools to apply the work to your life immediately.
💜Family discussion questions for each week's topic broken down by age group to share what you are learning with the rest of your family (Moms say connecting with their kids with this work is one of their new favorite parts of their week!).
💜Expert teaching on proven Catholic mind management and emotional regulation tools and skills (including creating healthy boundaries to protect your prayer time).
💜Consistent coaching support and accountability for your parenting, homeschooling, and even your marriage!
💜Uplifting and supportive Catholic homeschool mom community (off of FB) where you can get grown up interaction, ask questions, and get help in real time between the live calls!
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For less than one month of private piano lessons, Beloved supports you so your growth can echo through your marriage, your parenting, and your home long after Lent ends.
For less than one month of private piano lessons, Beloved supports you so your growth can echo through your marriage, your parenting, and your home long after Lent ends.
“The ideas of relationship over task, building positive connection with my kids, the model, learning about habit loops and resistance, and why I buffer. These things in combination have been helping me have much more self awareness, as well as helping me improve my interactions with others and my own life management.
When I get coached I feel very understood and that Emily really honors what we are going through. Personally I feel like she’s always been able to get at the deeper root of the issue with anything I’ve brought for coaching.
Before joining I was in constant overwhelm, fatigue, lots of complaining and feeling like I was running on a treadmill I couldn’t get off. Lots of second guessing myself and wondering if something was wrong with me.
I didn’t realize how this program is really an intentional guide to help build virtue in both yourself and your children! I see it as my intentional work to grow into my future saint self, to be able to pray always as well as decrease complaining and ingratitude. This program has also helped me view homeschooling in a much more comprehensive way, putting relationships and connection first. This is invaluable life work that shapes how we parent and educate our children, and is very much worth it!”
Gina, Happy, Holy Mama of 4
“The ideas of relationship over task, building positive connection with my kids, the model, learning about habit loops and resistance, and why I buffer. These things in combination have been helping me have much more self awareness, as well as helping me improve my interactions with others and my own life management.
When I get coached I feel very understood and that Emily really honors what we are going through. Personally I feel like she’s always been able to get at the deeper root of the issue with anything I’ve brought for coaching.
Before joining I was in constant overwhelm, fatigue, lots of complaining and feeling like I was running on a treadmill I couldn’t get off. Lots of second guessing myself and wondering if something was wrong with me.
I didn’t realize how this program is really an intentional guide to help build virtue in both yourself and your children! I see it as my intentional work to grow into my future saint self, to be able to pray always as well as decrease complaining and ingratitude. This program has also helped me view homeschooling in a much more comprehensive way, putting relationships and connection first. This is invaluable life work that shapes how we parent and educate our children, and is very much worth it!”
Gina, Happy, Holy Mama of 4
When I get coached I feel very understood and that Emily really honors what we are going through. Personally I feel like she’s always been able to get at the deeper root of the issue with anything I’ve brought for coaching.
Before joining I was in constant overwhelm, fatigue, lots of complaining and feeling like I was running on a treadmill I couldn’t get off. Lots of second guessing myself and wondering if something was wrong with me.
I didn’t realize how this program is really an intentional guide to help build virtue in both yourself and your children! I see it as my intentional work to grow into my future saint self, to be able to pray always as well as decrease complaining and ingratitude. This program has also helped me view homeschooling in a much more comprehensive way, putting relationships and connection first. This is invaluable life work that shapes how we parent and educate our children, and is very much worth it!”
Gina, Happy, Holy Mama of 4
You might be listening to
the Litany of Not Enough and
living out of Right Order if you are…
You might be listening to
the Litany of Not Enough and
living out of Right Order if you are…
the Litany of Not Enough and
living out of Right Order if you are…
- Constantly trying to catch up
- Always feeling behind
- Irritated about all the interruptions that happen throughout the day, preventing you from getting your work done
- Overwhelmed by how much there is to do and how little there is of you
- Exhausted from the sheer energy that thinking is costing you all day long
- Tired of regretting that you didn’t spend more time connecting with your kids, again
- Wishing you could actually fit prayer and spiritual reading into your week, but can’t seem to figure out how.
- Constantly trying to catch up
- Always feeling behind
- Irritated about all the interruptions that happen throughout the day, preventing you from getting your work done
- Overwhelmed by how much there is to do and how little there is of you
- Exhausted from the sheer energy that thinking is costing you all day long
- Tired of regretting that you didn’t spend more time connecting with your kids, again
- Wishing you could actually fit prayer and spiritual reading into your week, but can’t seem to figure out how.
When you put your life in Right Order you will…
When you put your life in Right Order you will…
- Finally learn how to put the most vital relationships in your life first, for real
- Finally prioritize your relationship with God, in real, practical, tangible ways without sacrificing the important work of your life and homeschool
- Pour into your marriage without sacrificing time with the kids
- Connect with your children on a heart level every single day, without sacrificing your homeschool progress
- Get the most important things done each day without second guessing or burning out (making you significantly more efficient and productive instead of less!)
- Grow in virtue and become the adult that you would be honored for your children to emulate one day!
- Finally learn how to put the most vital relationships in your life first, for real
- Finally prioritize your relationship with God, in real, practical, tangible ways without sacrificing the important work of your life and homeschool
- Pour into your marriage without sacrificing time with the kids
- Connect with your children on a heart level every single day, without sacrificing your homeschool progress
- Get the most important things done each day without second guessing or burning out (making you significantly more efficient and productive instead of less!)
- Grow in virtue and become the adult that you would be honored for your children to emulate one day!
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All because you finally feel like and believe
that you are enough,
instead of trying to do enough to prove that you are…
All because you finally feel like and believe
that you are enough,
instead of trying to do enough to prove that you are…
that you are enough,
instead of trying to do enough to prove that you are…
If this feels like a Holy Spirit nudge for you,
join Beloved below!
If this feels like a Holy Spirit nudge for you,
join Beloved below!
join Beloved below!
The doors for Beloved will close at midnight ET on Friday, February 20, 2026.
The doors for Beloved will close at midnight ET on Friday, February 20, 2026.
“I just want to say this program and your services are worth every penny and more. I am so grateful for you. You are helping God change so much for me and my family for the better. I know the ripples of our work together will forever change things for us. Thank you for answering God's call to this work. I feel so supported by God through you. I may not feel it from my family, but the creator is holding my hand. What more could I ask for?
I know that God is guiding you and the work of your hands. I get an image of the Lord moving your hands quite literally for you, while in prayer. He is blessing it and oh my goodness the impact will affect generations.”
Natalie
Happy, Holy Mama of 3
I know that God is guiding you and the work of your hands. I get an image of the Lord moving your hands quite literally for you, while in prayer. He is blessing it and oh my goodness the impact will affect generations.”
Natalie
Happy, Holy Mama of 3
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“I think Emily's approach is always both challenging and gentle. I love meeting every week at a 1:1 or group that bring both accountability and encouragement.
Being coached by Emily is the voice of a gentle, kind, older sister listening just as much as pointing with suggestions of how to cross the rocky creek of life with its white rapids as well as calm still waters, pointing out to notice those too. Also, I love group coaching more than I thought before I joined. It helps me see my own life from a different lens. I think it gives the same perspective that a well written book offers. Both a cathartic lens of looking at my own life as well as a pace car of how I talk to myself and others.
I look at this investment like any other in my health: necessary.”
Carissa
Happy, Holy Mama of 5
Being coached by Emily is the voice of a gentle, kind, older sister listening just as much as pointing with suggestions of how to cross the rocky creek of life with its white rapids as well as calm still waters, pointing out to notice those too. Also, I love group coaching more than I thought before I joined. It helps me see my own life from a different lens. I think it gives the same perspective that a well written book offers. Both a cathartic lens of looking at my own life as well as a pace car of how I talk to myself and others.
I look at this investment like any other in my health: necessary.”
Carissa
Happy, Holy Mama of 5
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"One of the most powerful things I've learned in the membership is that I'm not alone in my experiences and have grown so much from other mama's vulnerability, growth and the strengths. The tools shared are powerful and while all our experiences are unique, I've been so encouraged by the examples, desires and support within this community.
From one mama to another, your health is worth the investment alone but you'll quickly find the exponential effect on the well being of your family and friends too."
Krystal
Happy, Holy Mama of 8
From one mama to another, your health is worth the investment alone but you'll quickly find the exponential effect on the well being of your family and friends too."
Krystal
Happy, Holy Mama of 8
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"Being coached by Emily is like talking to an encouraging best friend who believes in you when you don't believe in yourself. Emily is full of empathy and understanding, but her questions are penetrating and you realize that her carefully nuanced inquiries are there to reveal your own wisdom and help you to establish roots to begin believing in yourself. She helps me to find clarity in my thoughts and feelings. The practical advice, mindset work, and spiritual guidance flow into all aspects of my life: prayer, marriage, mothering, homemaking, homeschooling, and friendship. She is full of tender love and encouragement, quick to light up with a smile and share her own vulnerability, thereby creating a space of intimacy and inspiration in her coaching calls. Basically, Emily is a Jedi Master and a guide of Gandalf caliber on this path to Heaven."
Robin
Happy, Holy Mama of 4
Robin
Happy, Holy Mama of 4
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“For 7 years I've been bringing yelling to confession, but the thoughtwork is so piercing that I don't yell anymore, it was like a flip of a switch. But now I’m connecting with the kids and offering hugs, even though physical affection is not my love language, but it works!”
Pilar
Happy, Holy Mama of 3
Pilar
Happy, Holy Mama of 3
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“Emily is an incredible life coach, and her membership has been truly life-changing. Her weekly coaching calls help me shift my mindset and stay on track with becoming the person, wife, and homeschool mom I strive to be. We recently moved across the country, and while moving is always challenging, the mindset shifts I’ve gained through Emily’s coaching made it feel so much easier. This membership is the best way I’m investing in myself, and I’m so grateful for it!"
Michele
Happy, Holy Mama of 4
Michele
Happy, Holy Mama of 4
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What Husbands say:
What Husbands say:
"There has been an obvious reduction in her overall stress level. She is much more relaxed and loving and able to be at peace.
My wife seems much more loving, relaxed, and patient with the kids and with me. Much better delineation of roles and responsibilities.
I tend to internalize many things, and she has helped me apply some principles in dealing with feelings that have been very helpful!
The new thought processes and emotional progress has been amazing to witness. This has easily been one of the best investments we have made in our emotional and mental health. I wish I could sign myself up too!
I know the investment is a lot up front, but the rewards on the back end are more than worth it. Take the plunge!"
Michael
Husband of a Happy, Holy Mama of 4
My wife seems much more loving, relaxed, and patient with the kids and with me. Much better delineation of roles and responsibilities.
I tend to internalize many things, and she has helped me apply some principles in dealing with feelings that have been very helpful!
The new thought processes and emotional progress has been amazing to witness. This has easily been one of the best investments we have made in our emotional and mental health. I wish I could sign myself up too!
I know the investment is a lot up front, but the rewards on the back end are more than worth it. Take the plunge!"
Michael
Husband of a Happy, Holy Mama of 4
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“My wife has grown in confidence and compassion. After 23 years of raising 12 children, with our last having special needs, it has been a labor of love and has taken a toll. Your program has restored her in ways I want so much to give to her, but cannot. The children seem more contented. She has been focusing more attention on prayer, Scripture reading, keeping traditions and making time for each one of the kids. As a result, the kids are growing closer to our Lord, singing more, laughing more, smiling more...
A few weeks ago she hinted at the idea of a few more months of membership would be all she wants for Christmas... As I prayed about it and contemplated what this means to her, I knew there was only one answer and that was to offer her monthly membership for as long as she wants it. Not for Christmas, but just because. My wife isn't much of a crier, but she was moved to joyful tears...I must say it made me happier than I've been in some time! Our youngest child is a gift from God, but her condition has turned our lives upside down...your program has really helped my wife to cope with the challenges we race. This is one of the best ways to let your wife know how much you love her.”
-David, Husband of a Happy, Holy Mama of 12"
A few weeks ago she hinted at the idea of a few more months of membership would be all she wants for Christmas... As I prayed about it and contemplated what this means to her, I knew there was only one answer and that was to offer her monthly membership for as long as she wants it. Not for Christmas, but just because. My wife isn't much of a crier, but she was moved to joyful tears...I must say it made me happier than I've been in some time! Our youngest child is a gift from God, but her condition has turned our lives upside down...your program has really helped my wife to cope with the challenges we race. This is one of the best ways to let your wife know how much you love her.”
-David, Husband of a Happy, Holy Mama of 12"
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