Become a Happy, Holy Mama!
I help you serve God,
through your family, better!
through your family, better!
And enjoy the journey along the way!
The reason you're not loving your life right now is likely because your life is out of Right Order.
So what IS the right order?
Think about it like a 3 Tiered Fountain.
- The pipe up the middle is your relationship with God AND yourself (how you think about yourself and speak to yourself)
- When the pipe is filled up and life-giving, then it overflows into the top tier, the smallest bowl: your marriage.
- When your marriage is filled up and life-giving, then it overflows into the middle tier: your kids.
- When your relationships with your kids are filled up, connected, and life-giving, then they overflow into the bottom tier: everything and everyone else in your life.
- Including your extended family, your home, homeschooling, outside obligations, etc.
You're likely trying to do things the other way around, focusing more on the tasks than the relationships.
Which is why you feel drained.
You might have a leak in the pipe.
You need to learn:
- How to put the Relationships before the Tasks
- How to let it be simple.
- How to be the expert in your own children that you are.
- That you are NEVER behind in God's Holy Will.
- That it all counts.
This is what I teach you how to do in the Happy, Holy Mama Membership!
How the Program Works
THE TOOLS
LIFETIME, ON-DEMAND ACCESS
to my proven program to help you Learn, Practice, and Master:
CATHOLIC MINDSET TOOLS
Learn how to manage your mind, filter your thoughts through the Holy Spirit, unite your will with God's Will, and regulate your emotions.
This is THE most powerful thing you can do and it's the FIRST thing I teach you inside the program!
This is THE most powerful thing you can do and it's the FIRST thing I teach you inside the program!
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HIGHLY RELATIONSHIP-FOCUSED CURRICULUM
Learn how to improve ANY relationship, beginning with the most important ones:
The relationship with God, yourself, your husband, and your children.
The relationship with God, yourself, your husband, and your children.
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CATHOLIC HOMESCHOOL STRATEGIES
Make confident decisions, create healthy boundaries, and
become the EXPERT
in your parenting and homeschool.
become the EXPERT
in your parenting and homeschool.
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TIME MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUES
Get the most important things done with calm confidence.
The program alone can help you feel better right away.
THE SUPPORT
WEEKLY MINDSET COACHING*
Whether you're just getting started with homeschooling or have been at it for years, weekly mindset coaching helps you tailor this work to your unique life, through all the seasons of life and homeschooling.
Replays are available if you can't make it live!
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MONTHLY HOMESCHOOL WORKSHOPS
Dive into the nitty-gritty details you are struggling with in your unique homeschool and walk away with a specific plan tailored to your unique family to implement immediately.
This includes beginning of the year planning workshops and mid-year evaluation and tweaking workshops!
Replays are available of all our live events so you never miss out!
This includes beginning of the year planning workshops and mid-year evaluation and tweaking workshops!
Replays are available of all our live events so you never miss out!
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COMMUNITY!
One of the most vital aspects of this program is the saintly cheering squad who have your back day every single day!
Build connections and deep, lasting friendships with other Catholic homeschool moms who are on the same path as you!
And yep, we're moving off of Facebook!
*Optional Private Coaching is available inside the Membership at discounted, member-only pricing!
"Quite simply, I love my life and the people in it more! Through the membership program, homeschooling has become a personal path of growth and learning for me alongside my children. Emily is an extraordinary guide and mentor, transforming my mindset of inadequacy, fear, and overwhelm around homeschooling to an ever-increasing confidence and peace that spills out into all areas of my life and all of my relationships."
Mary
Mama of 4
What makes Happy, Holy Mama different from other programs?
It's truly is the difference between homeschooling and sending your kids to a brick-and-mortar school.
My content, HOW I teach it and COACH on it is geared 100% to a Catholic homeschooling lifestyle!
The stuff we have to keep organized and track of is just different than that of non-homeschoolers.
The way we manage our time is different.
The way we interact with our children and the relationships we have with them are uniquely different than for moms who are not with their children all day long.
In Happy, Holy Mama we have weekly group coaching, like most programs, however we ALSO have monthly Homeschool Strategy Workshops each month that are geared specifically toward CATHOLIC homeschooling strategies that everyone in the community is facing.
In Happy, Holy Mama, we first and foremost focus on putting your life in Right Order and then improving the experience of each of the areas of your homeschooling lifestyle.
It is for this reason that I have also created the Put Your Life in Right Order Planner, accompanying workbook, and lessons that are designed specifically to help you think at the highest level about your personal goals, as well as your homeschooling goals, and how to make measurable progress toward it all!
Ultimately, I wanted to create a community where you'll never hear someone ask you if you should "think about just sending your kids to school" instead of homeschooling.
It is truly the most supportive and uplifting group of Catholic women out there!
My content, HOW I teach it and COACH on it is geared 100% to a Catholic homeschooling lifestyle!
The stuff we have to keep organized and track of is just different than that of non-homeschoolers.
The way we manage our time is different.
The way we interact with our children and the relationships we have with them are uniquely different than for moms who are not with their children all day long.
In Happy, Holy Mama we have weekly group coaching, like most programs, however we ALSO have monthly Homeschool Strategy Workshops each month that are geared specifically toward CATHOLIC homeschooling strategies that everyone in the community is facing.
In Happy, Holy Mama, we first and foremost focus on putting your life in Right Order and then improving the experience of each of the areas of your homeschooling lifestyle.
It is for this reason that I have also created the Put Your Life in Right Order Planner, accompanying workbook, and lessons that are designed specifically to help you think at the highest level about your personal goals, as well as your homeschooling goals, and how to make measurable progress toward it all!
Ultimately, I wanted to create a community where you'll never hear someone ask you if you should "think about just sending your kids to school" instead of homeschooling.
It is truly the most supportive and uplifting group of Catholic women out there!
Is Happy, Holy Mama a good fit for me, if I have neurodivergent kiddos?
While I am not an Autism expert, MANY of the mamas in the Membership have children who are neurodivergent and/or on the Autism spectrum.
The work that you and I will do together will help you learn how to manage your own thoughts and regulate your own emotions around your child's behavior, which is one of the biggest challenges mamas of differently-wired kiddos struggle with, especially when you're with your child all the time as a homeschooler.
If this resonates, then the Membership will be a good fit for you.
The experience I have helping Catholic mamas with differently-wired children manage the unique struggles that come with saying Yes to raising these beautiful kiddos in a homeschooling environment, can help you enjoy this journey more.
You will be in good company!
The work that you and I will do together will help you learn how to manage your own thoughts and regulate your own emotions around your child's behavior, which is one of the biggest challenges mamas of differently-wired kiddos struggle with, especially when you're with your child all the time as a homeschooler.
If this resonates, then the Membership will be a good fit for you.
The experience I have helping Catholic mamas with differently-wired children manage the unique struggles that come with saying Yes to raising these beautiful kiddos in a homeschooling environment, can help you enjoy this journey more.
You will be in good company!
"Listening to other people being coached, I always learn something that can be applied to my own unique circumstances. I realize how similar our struggles as mothers are across the board. I used to be too embarrassed to be coached, but homeschooling left me so humbled that I was eager to have all the help I could find. Once I got over the initial nerves, the clarity and direction I received from Emily, and the supportive comments from fellow members proved both rewarding and encouraging. I always walk away with more hope. During a hard week, knowing I can come together to troubleshoot whatever is feeling hard, problematic or downright impossible is incredibly reassuring. Consistent weekly coaching also gives me dedicated time each week for adult conversation, which can be hard to come by when homeschooling little people!"
Robin
Mom of 4
How it will feel along the journey...
Within the first week inside the Membership members report feeling less stressed and more calm than they have in years.
- Within the first week of practicing what I teach you (an average of about 20 minutes per day) you will notice positive changes in how you’re thinking about and responding to your family.
- Many mamas notice a change in their family members within that week as well, because mom has calmed down, so they feel permission to calm down, too.
- Within the first month you'll likely notice you’re less reactive and more proactive.
- You become more aware of God’s fingerprints in between all the peanut-buttery ones.
- You notice you’re maintaining your calm and peace more consistently.
- Your marriage feels more united.
- Your family relationships are more life-giving.
- You’re ready to tackle new goals and projects with clarity and certainty.
- You handle set backs and disappointments with more grace and self-control.
- You feel more united to God’s will in your life and for your family.
- You experience more freedom in relationships with your extended family and friends as they begin to feel less stressful and complicated.
- You start dreaming about your future again.
- Your homeschooling lifestyle feels less overwhelming, more manageable, and more enjoyable!
As a HHM Member you have the option to purchase private coaching at a discounted rate, if it would serve you!
How does Private Coaching Work?
We Meet
- We meet weekly for an hour over Zoom (or phone if need be) to clean out your brain of whatever is feeling painful or stuck.
- I help you get clear why you're in pain and what's the real cause for your being stuck: I show you where the leak in your pipe is.
- I help you unite your will with God's will, find acceptance and gratitude for what He gives you - the beautiful things and the challenging things.
- I help you feel better.
We Work
- I teach you the tools you need to follow through with what we plan together, so that you implement the thought work and strategies we create together for the next week.
- I teach you how to have your own back as you do the work so you aren’t dependent on me and start to grow your self-confidence.
- I help you get clear on what you want and we make a simple, DOABLE plan for how you’re going to achieve it.
- We come back the next week so you have consistent accountability so you not only put your life in Right Order, but I help you come back to it if you fall out again.
- You email me in between with questions or continued support between sessions, if needed.
You Grow!
HOW TO GET STARTED WITH PRIVATE COACHING:
I primarily work with Catholic homeschooling clients privately through
Happy, Holy Mama
Happy, Holy Mama
So, if you're interested in working with me privately, then I recommend that you book a Consult Call to discuss joining the Happy, Holy Mama Membership now!
Once you're a member you can choose a Private Coaching package that works best for your needs. On our Consult Call I will help you determine which package will serve you the best to meet your unique goals!
Once you're a member you can choose a Private Coaching package that works best for your needs. On our Consult Call I will help you determine which package will serve you the best to meet your unique goals!
What if I'm not a homeschooler?
I have a limited number of private coaching spots for non-homeschoolers!
Scroll to the bottom of the page to the FAQ section for details.
I have a limited number of private coaching spots for non-homeschoolers!
Scroll to the bottom of the page to the FAQ section for details.
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What happens on a Consult Call?
- Tell me all about your unique life and struggles.
- Ask all your questions!
- Leave knowing exactly what you want and how my coaching will help you achieve it.
- Make a decision and love your reasons (I can help you with this part if it's not your strong suit).
- Get started right away or join my waitlist!
"I had been on the fence about scheduling a consult call with Emily for months, even halfway completing the intake form at one point and then deciding against it. I'm so glad I finally did it! Emily is fantastic. In just one hour with Emily I gained a new perspective on how to become the person, the mom, the wife, I want to be and the confidence that I can do it! Within 3 days of our call I was seeing significant improvement in the relationship with my children and how they responded to me during high emotional moments. If you've been thinking about scheduling a consult call with Emily, don't wait any longer, it will change your life."
Becky
Mom of 6
I used to feel interiorly isolated from others especially since I didn't understand what to do with my own emotions or what my thoughts even were about myself and situations. I could talk about philosophy, theology, literature but not be able to open that painful door of my heart. Now if someone asks me questions that that door needs to open I feel not so much like a deer in headlights but confident, aware, and can hold my head up.
Carissa
Mama of 5
Two ways to begin your Lifetime Access to
Happy, Holy Mama
Happy, Holy Mama
Monthly
Pay over time and have access for LIFE!
$200 PER MONTH FOR ONE YEAR*
*After 12 months your payments stop, but you have access for LIFE!
One Time
DISCOUNTED!
Pay once, save, and have access for LIFE!
Pay once, save, and have access for LIFE!
ONE TIME PAYMENT OF $2000
Save $400!
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What Members of Happy, Holy Mama are saying:
Being coached by Emily feels good and hopeful and insightful. I think so much of the coaching principles translate well to so many areas of life and as a result the group coaching is really helpful. Just hearing the process is really helpful, and seeing what questions are asked, and especially that they are asked without judgment, it is so powerful. It's witnessing first hand how being objective can diffuse emotions, and how that in turn can get the intellect back up and on track to help the person move forward and get unstuck. It's really helpful. It's also helpful because I don't feel alone. I find it hard to trust other women. This group of women who really want help and are vulnerable with their own issues is just amazing.
Philomena
Mama of 3
I was at a crossroads in healing and improvement and was looking for where God wanted me to go next. Happy Holy Mama stepped in, and the Holy Spirit launched me into a whole new world of growth. I'm facing things "head on" and so many things are coming together. I can face difficult or uncomfortable things that come up because I don't have to be afraid of feeling a feeling. I can do hard things!!
Victoria
Mama of 4
Being coached by Emily is like receiving a hug from a loving, compassionate friend. A friend who won't back down and just say what you want to hear, which is no friend at all, but one who truly has your best interests in mind and wants you to become the best version of yourself that God himself desires.
Rebecca
Mama of 9
You are worth the investment. Moms set the tone for the household. We need to be instruments of God’s peace to create the environment for a happy holy home. The best way to do that is through learning the tools to take captive our mind for Christ.
Michaela
Mama of 6
What my more of my clients say:
"Being coached by Emily is like talking to an encouraging best friend who believes in you when you don't believe in yourself. Emily is full of empathy and understanding, but her questions are penetrating and you realize that her carefully nuanced inquiries are there to reveal your own wisdom and help you to establish roots to begin believing in yourself. She helps me to find clarity in my thoughts and feelings. The practical advice, mindset work, and spiritual guidance flow into all aspects of my life: prayer, marriage, mothering, homemaking, homeschooling, and friendship. She is full of tender love and encouragement, quick to light up with a smile and share her own vulnerability, thereby creating a space of intimacy and inspiration in her coaching calls. Basically, Emily is a Jedi Master and a guide of Gandalf caliber on this path to Heaven."
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Robin
Mama of 4
"Working with Emily as my Catholic life coach is the most powerful step in self-care I have ever taken. Her prayerful and thoughtful guidance helped me work through issues that had kept me feeling stuck for years. Each week we dig a little deeper to discern how God is inviting me to process the fear, and pain from my past so that it doesn't prevent me from stepping into the holy work of my present life. With grace and compassion, Emily validates my experiences, challenges my indulgent thoughts, and provides me with tools to identify and let go of old patterns that don’t serve me. Instead, I’m learning to truly place my trust in God, to celebrate the life I have been given, and to live each day more intentionally by managing my thoughts and actions. Although one-on-one coaching with Emily was a gift I gave to myself, it’s apparent that the Lord is blessing my entire family with the fruits of this time spent together!"
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Cathy
Mama of 4
"Working with Emily has shone a light into the dark areas of my thought life, and the things that I say and do. I am still struggling with my health, but I am working on it. I still have bad school days and days when the baby is sick and I have to go on without sleep. The difference is what I am telling myself as I make sacrifices for my family. There is a lightness to my day now knowing that most of the pressure was self inflicted. My kids don't have to finish every book before we can call it summer break. It's giving myself permission to accept my little children where they are, whether it's halfway through second grade at the end of April or not liking English at all. It's very freeing to think that we will just pick up with some of our books where we left off. After all, isn't that why we are homeschooling? So that we don't have to fit in a box? Emily has helped me tremendously with learning to govern my thinking. I have even begun to teach my children (they caught on very quickly). I still have a couple more months of coaching. I haven't heard it all yet, but I'm very grateful for the opportunity to improve our lives and relationships."
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Marijeanne
Mama of 7
"I worked with Emily as a life coach for the first time in 2022 and knew from our first call that she was the right person for my needs. She has such a peaceful presence and is incredibly knowledgeable when it comes to homeschool, organization and deepening your relationships with loved ones. I always walk away from our sessions more centered and focused. I now prioritize my relationships with my children over any workbook/worksheet. So many more enjoyable moments and peaceful days now. My thoughts towards my kids and ability to put up boundaries with extended family. I have better relationships with my kids and healthier ones with extended family. Learning to prioritize my husband more and put our marriage first has helped strengthen us too. I’m so much more in tune with my needs and don’t feel selfish for prioritizing them."
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Michaela
Mama of 6
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FAQ about the Happy, Holy Mama Membership
What makes this program different?
You can go anywhere on the internet and get advice about life and homeschooling. This is the only program out there specifically designed for Catholic homeschool moms to earn the equivalent of a Masters degree in their own human psychology – which is essentially what happens when you have a coach and learn how to manage your mind. And when you learn how to do this crucial step, then everything in your life, including homeschooling, becomes simple, clear, and doable.
When does the program start?
You have instant access to the entire program including the weekly coaching calls the minute you join. You also have acccess to the replay recordings of all past coaching calls and workshops to watch while you wait for the next live coaching call! Our current calls meet on Tuesdays at 10:00am PST and our Monthly Homeschool Workshops are typically the second Thursday of the month.
Do you offer private coaching?
I do! As a Catholic homeschooler, you can get everything you need through the recorded content and group coaching and workshops within the program! However, I understand that you might want to do some of your work privately. If you would like to work with me one-on-one, private coaching packages are available to purchase inside the program. If you’re NOT a homeschooler and are interested in private coaching only, please book a Consult Call with me so we can discuss your needs and how I can best serve you. I have limited private coaching spots available for non-homeschoolers.
What is the online community for?
In our online community I will offer more frequent interaction with our members, which means extra opportunities for coaching and support from me, your coach! This is where we will ask for prayer intentions, celebrate wins, and support each other. This is a huge benefit of the membership!
Do I have to have a Facebook account?
Not at all! In fact, we are moving off of Facebook and onto a platform called Circle! In order to be part of our optional interactive community outside the coaching calls, then all you need to do is create an account with the link to join our group that I'll send you after you enroll in the membership!
Are there refunds?
Because you get immediate access to all my courses, materials, and coaching replays this program is non-refundable.
Do you offer a free trial?
Because the Member Portal houses all of the replays of our group coaching calls, I do not offer a free trial of the program. This is entirely to protect the privacy and dignity of the members so they can feel safe to share vulnerably without fear of who will see it. Thank you for helping me respect the work they are doing.
What does "Lifetime Access" mean?
It is my mission to support you as long as possible, through all the seasons of life and homeschooling. I'm not going anywhere anytime soon! Therefore, as long as I'm in business you'll have access to my study vault.
Have More Questions?
If you have more questions that are not answered here, please email me at emily@fiatlifecoaching.com and I will respond shortly.
Do you work with non-homeschoolers? Or non-Catholic Christians?
Yes! I have a limited number of private coaching spots available to work with non-homeschoolers as well as non-Catholic Christians. The Happy, Holy Mama Membership was created with Catholic homeschoolers in mind, so if you’d like to work with me privately, please book a free Consult Call so we can discuss how I can serve you best!
Are you ready to start feeling BETTER in your life and start ENJOYING the journey of your home and homeschooling?