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It's time to stop yelling
It's time to stop yelling
for good.
for good.
Finally become the gentle, connected, confident homeschooling mom that God is calling you to be!
Finally become the gentle, connected, confident homeschooling mom that God is calling you to be!
Reclaim:
The Stop Yelling Challenge
Reclaim:
The Stop Yelling Challenge
The Stop Yelling Challenge
Where Catholic homeschooling mothers learn to let go of anger and grow in virtue with practical skills and Marian mindset to reclaim control of your heart and home, enjoy your kids, and stop yelling for good!
You love your children,
but sometimes you don’t like them very much.
You love your children,
but sometimes you don’t like them very much.
but sometimes you don’t like them very much.
Which is super painful because you longed to be a mother. You said yes to homeschooling when God asked you to, because you loved the idea of having them around all the time.
You wanted to be the primary influence in their life.
But not like this.
You wanted to be the primary influence in their life.
But not like this.
Waking up dreading the day ahead, because you know it’ll just be one fight after another.
Fight to wake them up.
Fight to get them to do their chores.
Fight to start school on time.
Fight to keep them focused.
You might even start the day out well, determined to stay calm and self-controlled…at least until you realize your middle schooler has spent all of his class time on YouTube instead of listening to the online lecture.
Fight to wake them up.
Fight to get them to do their chores.
Fight to start school on time.
Fight to keep them focused.
You might even start the day out well, determined to stay calm and self-controlled…at least until you realize your middle schooler has spent all of his class time on YouTube instead of listening to the online lecture.
Cue: Mom Vesuvius!
Cue: Mom Vesuvius!
Followed by slammed doors, angry tears, threats to send them to ‘real-school,’ and removal of all fun in the house.
The self-doubt and shame that comes from these outbursts makes you pull back and isolate yourself from your family. The disconnection that happens often extends to your chores around the house, and even your husband if he’s in the line of fire.
The self-doubt and shame that comes from these outbursts makes you pull back and isolate yourself from your family. The disconnection that happens often extends to your chores around the house, and even your husband if he’s in the line of fire.
"My kids walk all over me."
"I have no boundaries."
"They don’t respect me."
"Why do I even bother?"
"Nothing I do is ever good enough."
"I have no boundaries."
"They don’t respect me."
"Why do I even bother?"
"Nothing I do is ever good enough."
Sounding familiar? You are not alone.
I see you, mama.
I was you.
Sounding familiar? You are not alone.
I see you, mama.
I was you.
I see you, mama.
I was you.
I felt stuck in the Mad-Bad Mom Cycle for years of my children’s childhood, I missed out on so much. But I didn’t stay stuck there.
And you don’t have to either.
You can turn things around right now, with the exact life and the exact people you have right now.
The life and people God gave to you on purpose, for a purpose.
And you don’t have to either.
You can turn things around right now, with the exact life and the exact people you have right now.
The life and people God gave to you on purpose, for a purpose.
You were never meant to do this alone.
You want to form their character…
You want to help them grow in virtue…
You want to teach them self-control and emotional regulation…
…but it’s nearly impossible to teach what you don’t know how to do for yourself, and they just don’t teach you how to do this in school!
You want to form their character…
You want to help them grow in virtue…
You want to teach them self-control and emotional regulation…
…but it’s nearly impossible to teach what you don’t know how to do for yourself, and they just don’t teach you how to do this in school!
I know you’ve probably tried so many times to change your own behavior, but it can feel like a losing battle if your family seems to be actively working against your best efforts to be kind, gentle, and loving.
Being a mom is hard work. Being a homeschooler takes it to the next level of hard.
If you’re struggling to keep your cool around your children’s whining, interrupting, back-talking, or disobedience, you don’t have some hidden internal flaw.
Being a mom is hard work. Being a homeschooler takes it to the next level of hard.
If you’re struggling to keep your cool around your children’s whining, interrupting, back-talking, or disobedience, you don’t have some hidden internal flaw.
You are not broken.
There is nothing wrong with you.
You are not broken.
There is nothing wrong with you.
There is nothing wrong with you.
You just haven’t learned the right steps or had the right support to respond instead of overreact, connect before correcting, and follow through with consequences that make real change for the entire family.
When you have the right tools and support, being the calmer, gentler, more self-controlled mama you desire to be becomes inevitable.
When you have the right tools and support, being the calmer, gentler, more self-controlled mama you desire to be becomes inevitable.
Introducing: Reclaim
The Stop Yelling Challenge
Introducing: Reclaim
The Stop Yelling Challenge
The Stop Yelling Challenge
An 8-week all-inclusive experience to help you calm down, regulate your negative emotions, and turn down your internal temperature so you can show up as the kind, gentle, supportive mother and homeschooler that you’ve always dreamed of being!
This challenge gives you the tools, structure, feedback, and support to finally start enjoying your children without letting the rest of your life spin out of control, in a way that is practical, sustainable, and enjoyable!
This challenge gives you the tools, structure, feedback, and support to finally start enjoying your children without letting the rest of your life spin out of control, in a way that is practical, sustainable, and enjoyable!
Here’s a rundown of what you’ll get during the challenge:
Here’s a rundown of what you’ll get during the challenge:
A faith-filled community of Catholic homeschooling mothers who intimately know how beautiful it is to have your kids home with you all day long, and also the pain of never getting a break. These women hold space for you to be real and support you through your struggles without judgement. Together we’ll celebrate your wins, lift you up in prayer, and be the best saintly cheering squad on this side of heaven!
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Step-by-step instructions for how to have a better experience with your kids. Whether it’s kinder language and tone to use when responding to an interruption or consequences for disobedience that protect your relationship, I’ll give you insights that have worked for hundreds of other families.
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Live and recorded sessions that fit your schedule, plus daily practice pages that don’t just give you information — they help you actually change. With the Holy Spirit guiding you, the work you do here will move from head knowledge to heart transformation.
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Practical ways to teach your kids how to pause, reset, and respond with self-control, so sibling fights shrink, meltdowns calm faster, and your home feels lighter.
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One live kick-off workshop + four weekly coaching calls with lots of time built in to ask all your questions so you get the most out of your investment of time and resources.
Come get coached on your real-life challenges, ask all your questions, get personalized coaching (with the option to stay anonymous), and have space to put everything into practice. Plus I’m sharing my Emotional Regulation Script to talk to your kids about emotions and coach them through the really hard ones without completely losing your mind!
Come get coached on your real-life challenges, ask all your questions, get personalized coaching (with the option to stay anonymous), and have space to put everything into practice. Plus I’m sharing my Emotional Regulation Script to talk to your kids about emotions and coach them through the really hard ones without completely losing your mind!
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All access coaching space to ask for help between the weekly live calls so you:
- Don’t stay stuck.
- Turn a bad day around quickly.
- Go to bed content instead of defeated.
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Reclaim: Stop Yelling Challenge
is not going to solve every problem for every person out there.
Reclaim: Stop Yelling Challenge
is not going to solve every problem for every person out there.
is not going to solve every problem for every person out there.
But it will help you stop constantly yelling in your home, for good.
No mom is too far gone. No kids are beyond hope.
At the end of our 30 days together, you’ll walk away calmer and more clear headed than you’ve felt (probably since before you had kids).
You’ll have doable steps to follow anytime you start to feel your internal temperature rise so you can cool down and show up in a way you’d be happy for your kids to emulate.
You won’t just desire to connect with your kids, but you will have laid the foundation of deep connection with them, and you’ll have a sustainable plan for building onto that foundation of unconditional love and respect for years to come.
You’ll have doable steps to follow anytime you start to feel your internal temperature rise so you can cool down and show up in a way you’d be happy for your kids to emulate.
You won’t just desire to connect with your kids, but you will have laid the foundation of deep connection with them, and you’ll have a sustainable plan for building onto that foundation of unconditional love and respect for years to come.
This is figuroutable!
This is figuroutable!
But you don’t need to figure it out on your own anymore.
You can learn this simply and do-ably, deeply rooted in our Catholic faith and with incredible sisters in Christ cheering you on!
You can learn this simply and do-ably, deeply rooted in our Catholic faith and with incredible sisters in Christ cheering you on!
'It was like a flip of a switch'
'It was like a flip of a switch'
“For 7 years I've been bringing yelling to confession, but the thoughtwork is so piercing that I don't yell anymore, it was like a flip of a switch. But now I’m connecting with the kids and offering hugs, even though physical affection is not my love language, but it works!”
- PILAR
HAPPY, HOLY MAMA OF 4
HAPPY, HOLY MAMA OF 4
'Quite simply, I love my life'
'Quite simply, I love my life'
"I am learning to trust in God's plan and unite myself with His will. I am learning to rest in my littleness and trust more. I am learning to prioritize time with my husband, love him without condition, and express my gratitude for him. I am learning to honor time for myself and communicate my needs and boundaries with clarity. I am learning to love my children unconditionally. I am learning to accept them as they are and treasure this time with them by prioritizing relationships over tasks.
Quite simply, I love my life and the people in it more! Through the program, homeschooling has become a personal path of growth and learning for me alongside my children. Emily is an extraordinary guide and mentor, transforming my mindset of inadequacy, fear, and overwhelm around homeschooling to an ever-increasing confidence and peace that spills out into all areas of my life and all of my relationships."
- ROBIN
HAPPY, HOLY MAMA OF 4
'The impact will affect generations'
'The impact will affect generations'
“I just want to say this program and your services are worth every penny and more. I am so grateful for you. You are helping God change so much for me and my family for the better. I know the ripples of our work together will forever change things for us. Thank you for answering God's call to this work. I feel so supported by God through you. I may not feel it from my family, but the creator is holding my hand. What more could I ask for?
I know that God is guiding you and the work of your hands. I get an image of the Lord moving your hands quite literally for you, while in prayer. He is blessing it and oh my goodness the impact will affect generations.”
- NATALIE
HAPPY, HOLY MAMA OF 3
HAPPY, HOLY MAMA OF 3
Every day of Reclaim: The Stop Yelling Challenge combines Marian mindset and practical tools so you’re not just learning — you’re living it out right away.
Every day of Reclaim: The Stop Yelling Challenge combines Marian mindset and practical tools so you’re not just learning — you’re living it out right away.
Here's what you can expect:
Here's what you can expect:
1. Virtue training straight from Mary: Replace old yelling patterns with the virtues of Mary (like patience, gentleness, and fortitude) so your reactions start to look more like hers in the midst of challenging motherhood.
2. Scripture that speaks to your season: Handpicked passages that speak directly into your struggles so you feel grounded in truth and encouraged instead of defeated.
2. Scripture that speaks to your season: Handpicked passages that speak directly into your struggles so you feel grounded in truth and encouraged instead of defeated.
3. Wisdom from the Saints: See how holy men and women battled frustration too so you know you’re not alone and can see a path forward.
4. Daily invitation to prayer in a way that quiets your tongue so you can respond with love instead of anger.
5. Simple, proven, and repeatable mindset tools that help you calm down fast when you’re triggered so you can shift out of reaction mode and respond with calm.
4. Daily invitation to prayer in a way that quiets your tongue so you can respond with love instead of anger.
5. Simple, proven, and repeatable mindset tools that help you calm down fast when you’re triggered so you can shift out of reaction mode and respond with calm.
6. Bite-sized daily practices: Small, doable action steps designed to fit your busy homeschool life so you can build real change without adding more to your plate.
7. Step-by-step ways to respond to your kids so you handle their big emotions with calm compassion, so you’re not just stopping your yelling, you’re raising calmer, more resilient kids.
7. Step-by-step ways to respond to your kids so you handle their big emotions with calm compassion, so you’re not just stopping your yelling, you’re raising calmer, more resilient kids.
What if I'm not a "yeller"?
What if I'm not a "yeller"?
Reclaim will help you with all types of overreacting.
Whether it's using sarcasm, snapping, talking down to, walking away in a huff, slamming doors, sighing, or any other outward sign of your internal frustration...
Reclaim will help you with all types of overreacting.
Whether it's using sarcasm, snapping, talking down to, walking away in a huff, slamming doors, sighing, or any other outward sign of your internal frustration...
Whether it's using sarcasm, snapping, talking down to, walking away in a huff, slamming doors, sighing, or any other outward sign of your internal frustration...
...by the end of Reclaim you’ll:
...by the end of Reclaim you’ll:
- Calm down quickly and stop yelling for good, with a repeatable process you can rely on.
- Feel peaceful, self-controlled, and proud of the Catholic homeschool mom your kids see both at home and in public.
- Use practical tools that fit your unique family to build lasting peace and connection.
- Handle meltdowns, interruptions, and setbacks with grace, turning discipline into a moment of unconditional love.
- Take back your time and energy so you feel supported, steady, and in control.
Everything you get today for 30 Days of focused content and support to do one thing really well: Stop Yelling!
Everything you get today for 30 Days of focused content and support to do one thing really well: Stop Yelling!
- SHORT (4-20 minutes each) Pre-recorded Training Videos + Worksheets ($299 value): Jump-start your progress from day one and start reclaiming control of your heart and home right away.
- Live 90-Minute Kick-Off Workshop + Replay + Worksheets ($99 value): Get personalized teaching and hands-on practice so the skills you're practicing actually stick.
- Curated “Stop Yelling” Resource Library ($199 value): A go-to collection of tools and guides so you always have the right strategy at your fingertips.
- 4 Weeks of Unlimited Coaching & Support ($800 value): Ask questions as they come up, get unstuck quickly, and keep moving forward with expert Catholic life coaches.
- Private Online Community (off Facebook!) ($99 value): Connect with other Catholic homeschooling moms who understand your struggles, cheer your wins, and pray with you.
- Daily Prompts & Reminders ($99 value): Stay focused and consistent with simple nudges that deepen your learning and build momentum day by day.
A $1,596 value all for only $39*
A $1,596 value all for only $39*
*$39 is for one month of membership to Happy, Holy Mama where all of Reclaim is being offered.
*$39 is for one month of membership to Happy, Holy Mama where all of Reclaim is being offered.
Hi mama! I'm Emily.
Hi mama! I'm Emily.
I’m a Catholic homeschooling mama of seven, including two homeschool graduates(!), and I wasted way too many years of my children’s childhood feeling overwhelmed and angry.
I knew how blessed I was, but I sure didn’t feel blessed when I was buried under babies, diapers, tantrums, curriculum, interruptions, disrespect, and disobedience.
I felt broken and confused, because I had prayed so hard for this life that God was clearly gifting me with…what was wrong with me that I couldn’t enjoy it more?!
I tried therapy—it helped a little—but I still lacked the practical tools my family desperately needed me to have.
Then I discovered skills that helped me:
- take control of my heart and home
- grow in the virtues God was calling me to
- stop yelling at the people I loved most
When I practiced these tools, everything shifted—not just me, but the tone of our whole family.
Because mom sets the tone in the home.
Because my motherhood directly impacts our homeschooling, once I mastered these tools I could reset the tone of our whole family—even on the hardest homeschool days. I’ve since taught these skills to my kids, and now we can diffuse conflict quickly and calmly. Most of the time, they even work out their own differences without me.
We’re finally enjoying the family relationships and friendships I dreamed of when God first called me to homeschool seven years ago.
I’m constantly being asked by people observing my children’s interactions, “how did you do that?!”
Now it’s your turn. I want to share the exact tools I use every day to reclaim peace in my heart and home, enjoy my children, and build the kind of relationships that last a lifetime.
Because mom sets the tone in the home.
Because my motherhood directly impacts our homeschooling, once I mastered these tools I could reset the tone of our whole family—even on the hardest homeschool days. I’ve since taught these skills to my kids, and now we can diffuse conflict quickly and calmly. Most of the time, they even work out their own differences without me.
We’re finally enjoying the family relationships and friendships I dreamed of when God first called me to homeschool seven years ago.
I’m constantly being asked by people observing my children’s interactions, “how did you do that?!”
Now it’s your turn. I want to share the exact tools I use every day to reclaim peace in my heart and home, enjoy my children, and build the kind of relationships that last a lifetime.
In Reclaim: The Stop Yelling Challenge, you’ll uncover what’s really keeping you stuck—so you stop blaming your kids and start solving the right problems.
In Reclaim: The Stop Yelling Challenge, you’ll uncover what’s really keeping you stuck—so you stop blaming your kids and start solving the right problems.
I’ll guide you step by step through proven processes to regulate emotions, practice self-discipline, protect your peace with healthy boundaries, and even teach your kids simple ways to do the same—no matter their age.
Here's the thing
Here's the thing
Feeling angry and ashamed because your motherhood isn’t feeling as cozy and connected as you dreamed it would be isn't solving anything.
What you really need is:
What you really need is:
- The right tools to make real change
- The right guide who has been there and done to expertly teach them to you
- Time built in to practice what you learn
- Support to help you follow through and keep you accountable
Reclaim is right for you if...
Reclaim is right for you if...
- You're tired of feeling overwhelmed and out of control in your own home and homeschool, and are ready for real peace and self-control that lasts.
- You want real doable steps that will work for your Catholic homeschooling lifestyle.
- Sincerely want to stop melting down and overreacting every time your kids mess up so you can show up as the calm, confident, gentle Christian you want them to emulate in public.
- You want to feel proud of yourself and your kids, satisfied with the effort everyone is putting in, and content with the progress you’re making everyday.
- Ready to make impactful, sustainable improvements to your relationships with your kids, without having to send your kids to ‘real school.’
If you’ve been called to homeschool, the choices you make now shape not just your days—but the faith, peace, and resilience your children carry for a lifetime. Let’s begin that legacy today.
Answers to Your Questions:
Answers to Your Questions:
How much time will this take?
I’m a busy homeschooling mama of seven and I run a full-time coaching business—I get that you are busy! Every single thing we do in Reclaim is intentional and designed to make immediate change to your life. The kick-off workshop will last about 90 minutes (replays are always available if you can’t make it live), the daily work to implement will take between 10-20 minutes per day that you can do with your morning prayer and coffee, afternoon break (don't worry, I’ll teach you how to get that if you don’t already), or while your kids are at soccer practice. This will not be something else you have to add in, this will be the one thing that will give you more time and freedom in your day from here on out!
I’m a busy homeschooling mama of seven and I run a full-time coaching business—I get that you are busy! Every single thing we do in Reclaim is intentional and designed to make immediate change to your life. The kick-off workshop will last about 90 minutes (replays are always available if you can’t make it live), the daily work to implement will take between 10-20 minutes per day that you can do with your morning prayer and coffee, afternoon break (don't worry, I’ll teach you how to get that if you don’t already), or while your kids are at soccer practice. This will not be something else you have to add in, this will be the one thing that will give you more time and freedom in your day from here on out!
Will this work for me? I’ve tried so many things in the past, I might be too far gone.
I get a least one email per week, if not more, of moms asking this exact question—you are not alone! Here’s what I tell them: No mom is beyond help, no kids are beyond hope. This isn’t a platitude, it’s what I’ve experienced myself, and it’s what I see happening day after day, mother after mother in my coaching program. God called you to motherhood and homeschooling. Reclaim isn’t just another self-help book, blog, or podcast you have to figure out on your own. This offers you real, practical tools and support so you are properly equipped to answer His call.
I get a least one email per week, if not more, of moms asking this exact question—you are not alone! Here’s what I tell them: No mom is beyond help, no kids are beyond hope. This isn’t a platitude, it’s what I’ve experienced myself, and it’s what I see happening day after day, mother after mother in my coaching program. God called you to motherhood and homeschooling. Reclaim isn’t just another self-help book, blog, or podcast you have to figure out on your own. This offers you real, practical tools and support so you are properly equipped to answer His call.
How long do I have access to the program?
Reclaim is being offered exclusively inside the Happy, Holy Mama Membership this year. Which means you’ll have access to everything in Reclaim, plus the entire Happy, Holy Mama Member Portal from the minute you sign up until you decide to cancel.
Reclaim is being offered exclusively inside the Happy, Holy Mama Membership this year. Which means you’ll have access to everything in Reclaim, plus the entire Happy, Holy Mama Member Portal from the minute you sign up until you decide to cancel.
What are the dates and times for the Reclaim workshop and coaching calls?
Reclaim will begin on September 7, 2026
The Kick-Off Workshop will be held on Wednesday, September 9, 2026 at 3:00pm ET / 12:00pm PT.
Followed by four live coaching calls that will take place on Tuesdays
at 3:00pm ET / 2:00pm CT / 11:00pm MT / 12:00pm PT
ALL LIVE WORKSHOPS AND COACHING CALLS WILL COME WITH REPLAYS!
Reclaim will begin on September 7, 2026
The Kick-Off Workshop will be held on Wednesday, September 9, 2026 at 3:00pm ET / 12:00pm PT.
Followed by four live coaching calls that will take place on Tuesdays
at 3:00pm ET / 2:00pm CT / 11:00pm MT / 12:00pm PT
ALL LIVE WORKSHOPS AND COACHING CALLS WILL COME WITH REPLAYS!
If you're ready to finally...
If you're ready to finally...
…be the gentle, calm, supportive, and connected homeschool mother you dreamed of being when you decided to homeschool…
…feel integrity in your discipline and virtue training you’re giving your children, because you’re living by example…
…put the relationships with your kids as the front and center of your attention, without sacrificing productivity in your home and educational goals…
…feel integrity in your discipline and virtue training you’re giving your children, because you’re living by example…
…put the relationships with your kids as the front and center of your attention, without sacrificing productivity in your home and educational goals…
This is your personal invitation to Reclaim your heart and your home with Mary as your inspiration and the saints as your cheering squad!
This is your personal invitation to Reclaim your heart and your home with Mary as your inspiration and the saints as your cheering squad!
Come join us for the simplest, surest path to stop yelling and start connecting with your Catholic homeschooled kids right now!
Come join us for the simplest, surest path to stop yelling and start connecting with your Catholic homeschooled kids right now!
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