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It's time to stop yelling

for good.

Finally become the gentle, connected, confident homeschooling mom that God is calling you to be!

Reclaim:
The Stop Yelling Challenge

Where Catholic homeschooling mothers learn to let go of anger and grow in virtue with practical skills and Marian mindset to reclaim control of your heart and home, enjoy your kids, and stop yelling for good!

You love your children,
​​​​​​​but sometimes you don’t like them very much.

Which is super painful because you longed to be a mother. You said yes to homeschooling when God asked you to, because you loved the idea of having them around all the time.

You wanted to be the primary influence in their life.

But not like this.
Waking up dreading the day ahead, because you know it’ll just be one fight after another.

Fight to wake them up.
Fight to get them to do their chores.
Fight to start school on time.
Fight to keep them focused.

You might even start the day out well, determined to stay calm and self-controlled…at least until you realize your middle schooler has spent all of his class time on YouTube instead of listening to the online lecture.

Cue: Mom Vesuvius!

Followed by slammed doors, angry tears, threats to send them to ‘real-school,’ and removal of all fun in the house.

The self-doubt and shame that comes from these outbursts makes you pull back and isolate yourself from your family. The disconnection that happens often extends to your chores around the house, and even your husband if he’s in the line of fire.
"My kids walk all over me."
"I have no boundaries."
"They don’t respect me."
"Why do I even bother?"
"Nothing I do is ever good enough."
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Sounding familiar? You are not alone.

I see you, mama.

I was you.

I felt stuck in the Mad-Bad Mom Cycle for years of my children’s childhood, I missed out on so much. But I didn’t stay stuck there.

And you don’t have to either.

You can turn things around right now, with the exact life and the exact people you have right now.

The life and people God gave to you on purpose, for a purpose.
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You were never meant to do this alone.

You want to form their character…
You want to help them grow in virtue…
You want to teach them self-control and emotional regulation…

…but it’s nearly impossible to teach what you don’t know how to do for yourself, and they just don’t teach you how to do this in school!

I know you’ve probably tried so many times to change your own behavior, but it can feel like a losing battle if your family seems to be actively working against your best efforts to be kind, gentle, and loving.

Being a mom is hard work. Being a homeschooler takes it to the next level of hard.

If you’re struggling to keep your cool around your children’s whining, interrupting, back-talking, or disobedience, you don’t have some hidden internal flaw. 

You are not broken.

There is nothing wrong with you.
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You just haven’t learned the right steps or had the right support to respond instead of overreact, connect before correcting, and follow through with consequences that make real change for the entire family.

When you have the right tools and support, being the calmer, gentler, more self-controlled mama you desire to be becomes inevitable.

Introducing: Reclaim
​​​​​​​The Stop Yelling Challenge

An 8-week all-inclusive experience to help you calm down, regulate your negative emotions, and turn down your internal temperature so you can show up as the kind, gentle, supportive mother and homeschooler that you’ve always dreamed of being!

This challenge gives you the tools, structure, feedback, and support to finally start enjoying your children without letting the rest of your life spin out of control, in a way that is practical, sustainable, and enjoyable!

Here’s a rundown of what you’ll get during the challenge:

A faith-filled community of Catholic homeschooling mothers who intimately know how beautiful it is to have your kids home with you all day long, and also the pain of never getting a break. These women hold space for you to be real and support you through your struggles without judgement. Together we’ll celebrate your wins, lift you up in prayer, and be the best saintly cheering squad on this side of heaven!
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Step-by-step instructions for how to have a better experience with your kids. Whether it’s kinder language and tone to use when responding to an interruption or consequences for disobedience that protect your relationship, I’ll give you insights that have worked for hundreds of other families.
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Live and recorded sessions that fit your schedule, plus daily practice pages that don’t just give you information — they help you actually change. With the Holy Spirit guiding you, the work you do here will move from head knowledge to heart transformation.
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Practical ways to teach your kids how to pause, reset, and respond with self-control, so sibling fights shrink, meltdowns calm faster, and your home feels lighter.
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Six weekly live workshops with lots of time built in to do this work so you get the most out of your investment of time and resources.

​​​​​​​Come get coached on your real-life challenges, ask all your questions, get personalized coaching (with the option to stay anonymous), and have space to put everything into practice Plus I’m sharing my Emotional Regulation Script to talk to your kids about emotions and coach them through the really hard ones without completely losing your mind!
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All access coaching space to ask for help between the weekly live calls so you:
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  • Don’t stay stuck.
  • Turn a bad day around quickly.
  • Go to bed content instead of defeated. 
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Weekly prizes every Catholic mom will love! Homeschool moms don’t have anyone to lead their kids through making them Christmas ornaments or Mother’s Day poems at school. It’s time you were honored and celebrated for the hard work you’re doing for your family All. Day. Long! Catholic swag, books, and gift cards to your favorite online shops will be given out weekly. All you have to do is show up.

Reclaim: Stop Yelling Challenge
​​​​​​​is not going to solve every problem for every person out there.

But it will help you stop constantly yelling in your home, for good.

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No mom is too far gone. No kids are beyond hope.
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At the end of our 8 weeks together, you’ll walk away calmer and more clear headed than you’ve felt (probably since before you had kids).

You’ll have doable steps to follow anytime you start to feel your internal temperature rise so you can cool down and show up in a way you’d be happy for your kids to emulate.

You won’t just desire to connect with your kids, but you will have laid the foundation of deep connection with them, and you’ll have a sustainable plan for building onto that foundation of unconditional love and respect for years to come.

This is figuroutable!

But you don’t need to figure it out on your own anymore.

You can learn this simply and do-ably, deeply rooted in our Catholic faith and with incredible sisters in Christ cheering you on!

'It was like a flip of a switch'

“For 7 years I've been bringing yelling to confession, but the thoughtwork is so piercing that I don't yell anymore, it was like a flip of a switch. But now I’m connecting with the kids and offering hugs, even though physical affection is not my love language, but it works!”

- PILAR
HAPPY, HOLY MAMA OF 4

'Quite simply, I love my life'

"I am learning to trust in God's plan and unite myself with His will. I am learning to rest in my littleness and trust more. I am learning to prioritize time with my husband, love him without condition, and express my gratitude for him. I am learning to honor time for myself and communicate my needs and boundaries with clarity. I am learning to love my children unconditionally. I am learning to accept them as they are and treasure this time with them by prioritizing relationships over tasks.

Quite simply, I love my life and the people in it more! Through the program, homeschooling has become a personal path of growth and learning for me alongside my children. Emily is an extraordinary guide and mentor, transforming my mindset of inadequacy, fear, and overwhelm around homeschooling to an ever-increasing confidence and peace that spills out into all areas of my life and all of my relationships."


- ROBIN
HAPPY, HOLY MAMA OF 4

'The impact will affect generations'

“I just want to say this program and your services are worth every penny and more. I am so grateful for you. You are helping God change so much for me and my family for the better. I know the ripples of our work together will forever change things for us. Thank you for answering God's call to this work. I feel so supported by God through you. I may not feel it from my family, but the creator is holding my hand. What more could I ask for?

I know that God is guiding you and the work of your hands. I get an image of the Lord moving your hands quite literally for you, while in prayer. He is blessing it and oh my goodness the impact will affect generations.”

- NATALIE
HAPPY, HOLY MAMA OF 3

Every week of Reclaim: The Stop Yelling Challenge combines Marian mindset and practical tools so you’re not just learning — you’re living it out right away.

Here's what you can expect:

1. Virtue training straight from Mary: Replace old yelling patterns with the virtues of Mary (like patience, gentleness, and fortitude) so your reactions start to look more like hers in the midst of challenging motherhood.

2. Scripture that speaks to your season: Handpicked passages that speak directly into your struggles so you feel grounded in truth and encouraged instead of defeated.
3. Wisdom from the Saints: See how holy men and women battled frustration too so you know you’re not alone and can see a path forward.

4. Daily invitation to prayer in a way that quiets your tongue so you can respond with love instead of anger.

5. Simple, proven, and repeatable mindset tools that help you calm down fast when you’re triggered so you can shift out of reaction mode and respond with calm.

6. Bite-sized daily practices: Small, doable action steps designed to fit your busy homeschool life so you can build real change without adding more to your plate.

7. Step-by-step ways to teach your kids how to handle their big emotions too so you’re not just stopping your yelling, you’re raising calmer, more resilient kids.

Here's what we're doing together each week:

Week 1 — Reclaim Your Heart and Home

Week 1
​​​​​​​Reclaim Your Heart and Home

PREP WEEK:
Behavior charts, grounding, taking things away, nagging, snapping, and yelling haven’t been working so far, at least not for long. Our goal for Prep Week is to intentionally prepare your heart for the depth of what you’re about to learn, and prepare your home to make space (and TIME) to do the work in so it becomes second nature.

This week you’ll get short pre-recorded videos to reclaim your heart and home:
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  • Discover why anger keeps showing up no matter how hard you try to change and the Marian virtue that makes unconditional love actually possible.
  • In the first video you’ll also learn the #1 tool Emily and all her clients use every single day to make the impossible possible. You want to stop yelling for good? You’ll need this to stop white knuckling through it and actually develop self-control that lasts.
  • The exact process Emily uses to simplify your life to build in time for this work (and other things you’ve been meaning to get to!), so this is a program you can easily do from start to finish.

Each video comes with short, simple guides, scripture, and inspiration from the saints to solidify what you learn into your brain, and make it doable.​​​​​​​
  • You’ll also get access to the Stop Yelling Challenge community and discover that you really are not the only one struggling with yelling.

By the end of this week you will already feel a shift in how you think about and feel towards your children in the best possible way. You will have more hope that real change is possible than you’ve had in a long time.

And that’s before any of our live workshops even start!

Week 2 — Reclaim Your Mind

Week 2
​​​​​​​Reclaim Your Mind

Celebrate Mama Mary’s Birthday by learning how to turn your thoughts into Yesses for God like she did!

Our goal for Week 2 is to learn how to take your negative thoughts captive for Christ so that they stop running away with you. Learn how to have Mary-like self-control and temperance by learning how to:
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  • Identify your specific stress triggers and get practical ways to respond to them calmly and respectfully, regardless of what’s going on.
  • Gain awareness of the specific thoughts that are keeping you disconnected from your kids and how to reclaim and reframe those thoughts in the heat of the moment to turn things around quickly.
  • Proclaim truth over each situation using the Holy Spirit as your filter to show love to your child and actually be the gentle mom you want to be no matter what.


By the end of Week 2, you’ll feel in charge of your thoughts instead of ruled by them. That shift alone cuts down the overwhelm and frees up the mental space you need to show up for your family the way you want to.
 
Week 3 — Reclaim Your Emotions

Week 3
​​​​​​​Reclaim Your Emotions

Learn how to have Mary’s heroic patience and fortitude as we go through my signature 3 Step emotional processing formula to regulate your negative emotions and stop feeling stuck! You’ll learn how to:
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  • Stop just telling your kids to calm down and start showing them. My signature process helps you cool off fast so you can model the self-control you want them to learn.
  • Let go of anger and meet other people’s emotions with calm instead of frustration.
  • Talk to your kids about emotions without judgment or urgency so they can calm down faster without you losing your cool.

By the end of Week 3, you’ll have practical tools to release negative emotions and respond with grace and connection. You’ll feel confident modeling the kind of behavior you’d be proud to see your kids copy in public.
Week 4 — Reclaim Your Space

Week 4
​​​​​​​Reclaim Your Space

Adopt Mary’s servant heart to minister to your family’s needs with unconditional love and deep peace, by creating healthy boundaries to live the life and mission God is calling you to, while practicing letting go of bitterness and resentment. This week you’ll learn how to:
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  • Create healthy emotional and physical boundaries that protect your peace without keeping your loved ones at arm’s length.
  • Plan ahead for obstacles so you can respond calmly to interruptions instead of overreacting.
  • Deliver negative consequences without guilt or shame, and use positive consequences to motivate your children without rewarding bad behavior.
  • Simplify your days by letting the Holy Spirit guide your to-do list, so you stay present with your family instead of frozen in indecision and overwhelm.

By the end of Week 4 you’ll be saving yourself time and energy, treating yourself more like a best friend rather than a drill sergeant with healthy boundaries that create space to think, pray, and rest deeply. You finally start to enjoy your work as a homeschooling and homemaking mama with boundaries that allow you to be in the present moment.
Week 5 — Reclaim Control

Week 5
​​​​​​​Reclaim Control

Learn how to serve God in your daily actions and adopt Mary’s posture of unceasing prayer to calm down the internal noise in your head and heart, allowing you to regain control of your home. This week you’ll learn how to:
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  • Build self-discipline which is the key to creating a family culture of discipline with the brain science of following through. 
  • Implement my signature Process to boost productivity while strengthening connection in your home.
  • Speak to your children with mercy and grace when they mess up, building up your relationships instead of tearing them down.
  • Teach your children respect and obedience without shame and disconnection. 

By the end of Week 5, you’ll notice a major shift in both productivity and peace. You’ll practice the Fruit of the Spirit of Self-Control—no more snapping, nagging, or shoving down emotions. Instead, you’ll use your feelings as fuel for progress, creating forward momentum even on hard days.
Week 6 — Reclaim Your Freedom

Week 6
​​​​​​​Reclaim Your Freedom

Begin the healing process in your family by learning Mary’s profound humility, gentleness, and generosity to extend forgiveness in a way that releases grudges and builds trust with yourself and your children. This week you’ll learn how to:
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  • Own your mistakes with humility, not humiliation, ask for forgiveness, and move forward with peace as a family. 
  • Use my step-by-step dialogue to model the Sacrament of Reconciliation at home, so your kids approach confession with confidence, not fear. Teach your children how to ask for forgiveness from each other and work through their own differences so that, one day, they won’t need you to help them through it!

By the end of Week 6 you’ll have a script and process to demonstrate the forgiving and merciful nature of our loving, merciful God.. You and your family will have a process to start fresh as often as you need to, and experience the freedom that comes from a healed and reconciled family. 
Week 7 — Reclaim Your Peace

Week 7
​​​​​​​Reclaim Your Peace

Embrace Mary’s ardent charity and generosity by letting go of comparison, envy, and fear. This week is about finding lasting peace and learning to truly enjoy the life God has given you.
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  • Stop compare and despair in its tracks with Marian mindset shifts that calm down fear and envy fast so you can stop feeling like whatever you do isn’t enough.
  • Be grounded in the present moment instead of worrying about the future, so you can savor life here and now.
  • Measure your progress since the beginning of the challenge to gather data about where you’re at and what you want to keep working on.

By the end of the 7th Week you’ll have tangible evidence of how much you’ve improved since the beginning of the challenge, feel like your own best friend who loves and supports you, and have practical tools to maintain your newfound peace and confidence every day!
Week 8 — Reclaim Your Life

Week 8
​​​​​​​Reclaim Your Life!

Learn how to listen to God and implement the mission Mary gives you in John 2:5 to “do whatever he tells you.” You’ll be to able to:
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  • Pray with a simple, powerful tool that helps you hear God’s voice clearly and silence fear or doubt as you reach the finish line of this challenge.
  • Dream about your future with God while still protecting the peace you’ve built in your motherhood today.
  • Set specific, faith-filled goals and map out practical steps to reach them—without losing the connection and progress you’ve cultivated with your children.

By the end of Week 8, you’ll feel confident moving forward with a clear mission, rooted in unconditional love, peace, and connection—ready to build the family life God has been preparing you for.

By the end of Reclaim Stop Yelling Challenge, you’ll:

  • Calm down quickly and stop yelling for good, with a repeatable process you can rely on.
  • Feel peaceful, self-controlled, and proud of the Catholic homeschool mom your kids see both at home and in public.
  • Use practical tools that fit your unique family to build lasting peace and connection.
  • Handle meltdowns, interruptions, and setbacks with grace, turning discipline into a moment of unconditional love.
  • Take back your time and energy so you feel supported, steady, and in control.

Everything you get today for eight weeks of focused content and support to do one thing really well: Stop Yelling!

  • 4 Pre-recorded Training Videos + Worksheets ($99 value): Jump-start your progress from day one and start reclaiming control of your heart and home right away.
  • 6 Live 90-Minute Workshops + Replays + Worksheets ($594 value): Get personalized teaching and hands-on practice so the skills you're practicing actually stick. 
  • Curated “Stop Yelling” Resource Library ($199 value): A go-to collection of tools and guides so you always have the right strategy at your fingertips.
  • 8 Weeks of Unlimited Coaching & Support ($1600 value): Ask questions as they come up, get unstuck quickly, and keep moving forward with expert Catholic life coaches.
  • Private Online Community (off Facebook!) ($99 value): Connect with other Catholic homeschooling moms who understand your struggles, cheer your wins, and pray with you.
  • Daily Prompts & Reminders ($99 value): Stay focused and consistent with simple nudges that deepen your learning and build momentum day by day.

A $2,690 value all for only $69

Hi mama! I'm Emily.

I’m a Catholic homeschooling mama of seven, including our first recent homeschool graduate, and I wasted way too many years of my children’s childhood feeling overwhelmed and angry.

I knew how blessed I was, but I sure didn’t feel blessed when I was buried under babies, diapers, tantrums, curriculum, interruptions, disrespect, and disobedience.

I felt broken and confused, because I had prayed so hard for this life that God was clearly gifting me with…what was wrong with me that I couldn’t enjoy it more?!

I tried therapy—it helped a little—but I still lacked the practical tools my family desperately needed me to have.
Then I discovered skills that helped me:
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  • take control of my heart and home
  • grow in the virtues God was calling me to
     
  • stop yelling at the people I loved most
When I practiced these tools, everything shifted—not just me, but the tone of our whole family.
Because mom sets the tone in the home.

Because my motherhood directly impacts our homeschooling, once I mastered these tools I could reset the tone of our whole family—even on the hardest homeschool days. I’ve since taught these skills to my kids, and now we can diffuse conflict quickly and calmly. Most of the time, they even work out their own differences without me.

We’re finally enjoying the family relationships and friendships I dreamed of when God first called me to homeschool seven years ago.

I’m constantly being asked by people observing my children’s interactions, “how did you do that?!”

Now it’s your turn. I want to share the exact tools I use every day to reclaim peace in my heart and home, enjoy my children, and build the kind of relationships that last a lifetime.

In Reclaim: The Stop Yelling Challenge, you’ll uncover what’s really keeping you stuck—so you stop blaming your kids and start solving the right problems. 

I’ll guide you step by step through proven processes to regulate emotions, practice self-discipline, protect your peace with healthy boundaries, and even teach your kids simple ways to do the same—no matter their age.

Here's the thing

Feeling angry and ashamed because your motherhood isn’t feeling as cozy and connected as you dreamed it would be isn't solving anything.

What you really need is:
  • The right tools to make real change
  • The right guide who has been there and done to expertly teach them to you
  • Time built in to practice what you learn
  • Support to help you follow through and keep you accountable

Reclaim is right for you if...

  • You're tired of feeling overwhelmed and out of control in your own home and homeschool, and are ready for real peace and self-control that lasts.
  • You want real doable steps that will work for your Catholic homeschooling lifestyle.
  • Sincerely want to stop melting down and overreacting every time your kids mess up so you can show up as the calm, confident, gentle Christian you want them to emulate in public.
  • You want to feel proud of yourself and your kids, satisfied with the effort everyone is putting in, and content with the progress you’re making everyday.
  • Ready to make impactful, sustainable improvements to your relationships with your kids, without having to send your kids to ‘real school.’

If you’ve been called to homeschool, the choices you make now shape not just your days—but the faith, peace, and resilience your children carry for a lifetime. Let’s begin that legacy today.

Answers to Your Questions:

How much time will this take?
I’m a busy homeschooling mama of seven and I run a full-time coaching business—I get that you are busy! Every single thing we do in Reclaim is intentional and designed to make immediate change to your life. Weekly workshops will last about 90 minutes (replays are always available if you can’t make it live), the daily work to implement will take between 10-20 minutes per day that you can do with your morning prayer and coffee, afternoon break (don't worry, I’ll teach you how to get that if you don’t already), or while your kids are at soccer practice. This will not be something else you have to add in, this will be the one thing that will give you more time and freedom in your day from here on out!
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Will this work for me? I’ve tried so many things in the past, I might be too far gone.
I get a least one email per week, if not more, of moms asking this exact question—you are not alone! Here’s what I tell them: No mom is beyond help, no kids are beyond hope. This isn’t a platitude, it’s what I’ve experienced myself, and it’s what I see happening day after day, mother after mother in my coaching program. God called you to motherhood and homeschooling. Reclaim isn’t just another self-help book, blog, or podcast you have to figure out on your own. This offers you real, practical tools and support so you are properly equipped to answer His call.
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How long do I have access to the program?
You’ll have access from the minute you sign up (before September 5, 2025) until midnight on October 24, 2025 to dive into this work with us!

What are the dates and times for the Reclaim workshops?
Reclaim will begin with an optional Prep-Week during the week of August 25, 2025
However, Reclaim will officially begin on Monday, September 1, 2025 and end on Friday, October 24, 2025.
The live workshops will take place at 2:00pm ET / 1:00pm CT / 12:00pm MT / 11:00am PT
ALL LIVE WORKSHOPS WILL COME WITH REPLAYS FOR CHALLENGE PARTICIPANTS.
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Why is there limited access?
I don’t want this to be another program you pay for and don’t do. I want this program to change your life and create ripple effects that will last for years to come. As a professional life coach who has worked with hundreds of Catholic homeschooling mothers, I have found that moms make the most tangible changes when we have structure and deadlines built in. So I’m giving you time at the beginning of the challenge to intentionally prepare your heart and your home so that when we begin the live calls you are ready to make the most of our time together. Then we’ll have six weeks of live workshops and short daily goals to implement the work, plus a full week at the end of the challenge to catch up on anything you missed, go through anything you want to do again, and ask all your questions before we’re done!

Do I have to be a Catholic homeschooling mother to participate in Reclaim?
Yes. I am intentionally creating a space where our lifestyle is never questioned and all participants feel safe to share about the real struggles that come with being a Catholic woman, mother, and homeschooler.

What if this isn’t right for me?
I want you to feel good about any investment of your time and resources. If you have enrolled in the program, participated in our live calls (or watched the replays), and posted in our weekly challenge check-ins, and don’t see the value, we will gladly provide a 100% refund within 14 days of your purchase. Simply send me an email.

If you're ready to finally...

…be the gentle, calm, supportive, and connected homeschool mother you dreamed of being when you decided to homeschool…

…feel integrity in your discipline and virtue training you’re giving your children, because you’re living by example…

…put the relationships with your kids as the front and center of your attention, without sacrificing productivity in your home and educational goals…


​​​​​​​This is your personal invitation to Reclaim your heart and your home with Mary as your inspiration and the saints as your cheering squad!

Come join us for the simplest, surest path to stop yelling and start connecting with your Catholic homeschooled kids right now!

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